You deserve to feel at home in yourbody
body, pleasure, intimacy, relationshipsTrauma-informed somatic coaching, counselling and mentoring to help you feel more connected, confident and at ease in your body, desires and relationships.
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Hi, I’m Bia Bliss
And I’m so glad you are here!
My mission is to create safer spaces for deeply feeling humans to explore authentic intimacy, vulnerability and sexual freedom through trauma-informed practices that encompass mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual alignment.
Whether it’s through 1:1 coaching, live events, self-paced online courses, group programs, or weekend immersions, my commitment is to meet you right where you are.
I’m a neurodivergent (ADHD), heart-centred being who trained as a somatic sexologist, Embodied Counsellor and Aletheia Coach. Oh, and in one chapter of my life, I was an escort, which provided me with profound insights into the intricacies of human connection that no classroom will ever be able to teach!
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What If You Could Go From…
Self-doubt
confidence in sex, intimacy, and relationships?
Overthinking intimacy
feeling fully present and at ease?
Guilt and shame
embracing pleasure without hesitation?
Suppressing desires
clearly expressing and owning them?
Avoiding intimacy
deeply enjoying connection?
People-pleasingand weak boundaries
confidently owning your needs and desires.
Ways We Can Work Together
Events
Interactive, immersive experiences to help you expand and reconnect, in person or online.
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Custom-tailored to your unique challenges, goals and desires.
Explore 1:1 SessionsOnline Courses
Explore topics of interest either in a cohort or at your own pace.
Success Stories
I know this might feel out of reach right now. But you’re not alone and you’re not the first to feel this way. Here’s what’s possible when you step into this work…
Most practitioners out there are trying to convince you why you should work with them. I rather let my clients do the talking, as after working with me, they feel confident to show up on camera and share their journey publicly, hoping that their story might inspire others to take action and change their lives too.
Andrea from New Zealand went from experiencing sexual guilt and shame to empowerment!
Nye from New Zealand went from performance anxiety and porn addiction to choice and sexual freedom!
I don’t just talk the talk. I embody what I teach. I cherish the most amazing relationship with my life partner, Chris. I firmly believe that such a profound connection isn’t just possible for me. It’s attainable for anyone who takes the time to learn about the transformative power of the body/mind/heart connection, regardless of past experiences, including you!
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is awakened intimacy?+
Awakened intimacy is a comprehensive approach to building closeness and connection in all aspects of a relationship with self and another. It goes beyond just physical or sexual intimacy to include emotional, mental, and sometimes spiritual connections. This approach emphasizes understanding and nurturing the whole person and the entire relationship, considering factors like communication, trust, mutual respect, and shared experiences.
The goal is to create a deeply satisfying and balanced relationship that supports the well-being of all parties involved, in and out of the bedroom.
What happens in a session?+
In a session, you’ll find a welcoming and judgment-free space. We start by discussing what you’d like to takeaway from out time together, from relationship challenges to personal intimacy goals. Then we’ll explore practical tools and exercises designed to help you achieve your goals.
How many sessions do I need?+
In New Zealand we say: “How long is a piece of string?”. The truth is, everyone’s journey varies, making the number of sessions needed unique to each person, as we all have different backgrounds and life experiences.
In my experience as a client and as a practitioner, to truly cultivate and sustain long-term results, a period of 3, 6 or 12 months is recommended. This allows for in-depth exploration, transformation, and the solidification of new practices and ways of being.
However, if you’re seeking guidance on a specific, pressing issue, a single session might offer the clarity and direction you need. Ultimately, the number of sessions depends on your individual goals, challenges, and desired outcomes and I’m here to support you in whichever capacity serves you best. For this reason, I invite you to schedule an introductory call, where we can have a chat and find out which of my services pathway may best support you.
Let’s Get You There
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Take the first step toward sexual confidence, intimacy healing, and deeper relationships. Whether you’re neurodivergent, queer, or simply seeking a more fulfilling connection, get in touch and find out what might the best pathway for you.