Authentic Intimacy, Pleasure & Sexual Freedom are your Birthright!
It’s time to reclaim it!
Hi, I’m Bia Bliss
And I’m so glad you are here!
I’m a neurodivergent (ADHD), heart-centered, awake being who trained as a somatic sexologist, embodied counsellor and Aletheia Coach, practicing as holistic intimacy & relationships guide/mentor. And, in one chapter of my life, I was an escort, which provided me with profound insights into the intricacies of human connection.
My mission is to create safe spaces for individuals and couples to embrace authentic intimacy, vulnerability and sexual freedom through trauma-informed practices that encompass mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual alignment.
Whether it’s through 1:1 coaching, live events, self-paced online courses, group programs, or weekend immersions, my commitment is to meet you right where you are.
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How Would You Feel If You…
✔️ had a clearer understanding of your desires, boundaries, and challenges around sexuality, intimacy and pleasure?
✔️ had better communication tools to ask for what you want?
✔️ felt more confidence in the bedroom?
✔️ had access to more pleasure and orgasmic energy even without a partner?
If you are anything like me, it would feel empowering to experience one or more of the above. This is totally possible, as I’ve been through the journey myself, and so have hundreds of my clients over the years.
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Here are some of the ways I can help you:
- Releasing Shame & Guilt: Overcome societal conditioning and embrace pleasure, sex, and holistic intimacy as your birthright!
- Body Acceptance & Self-Love: Celebrate what yo’ mamma gave ya, and feel confident in your own skin.
- Mindful Intimacy & Tantra: Explore and enhance spiritual connections with yourself and/or a partner.
- Mid-Life Intimacy Transitions Guidance: Adapt to the inevitable changes that come with the years in an empowered way!
- Addressing Performance Anxiety: Ease your worries and enhance your confidence during intimate moments, creating a relaxed and enjoyable experience.
- Lasting Longer: Learn techniques to extend pleasure and intimacy, ensuring both you and your partner’s satisfaction.
- Sexual Exploration & Self-Discovery: Understand your intimate desires and boundaries, shame and guilt free!
- Holistic Sex Education: The sex education you wish you had received in school!
- Boosting Confidence in Intimacy: Empowering you to be assertive in intimate scenarios and getting your needs met!
- Mindful Masturbation: Broaden your masturbation techniques repertoire.
- Communication Skills: Stop getting lost in translation and uplevel your communication game!
- Ethical Non-Monogamy Guidance: Explore non-traditional relationship structures. Have your cake and eat it too!
My work is trauma-informed, helping you heal and move forward while acknowledging past experiences through compassionate, understanding care.
My deepest desire is for you to overcome any sexual challenges or blockages that you may have, and experience next-level intimacy, love, and pleasure, in and out of the bedroom!
1:1 Sessions
Custom-tailored to your unique challenges, goals and desires.
Events
Experiential sessions with like-minded people. Share, learn, and connect in person or online.
Online Courses
Explore topics of interest either in a group or at your own pace.
Success Stories
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Since 2012 I’ve had the privilege of working with thousands of individuals, each with their unique narrative about intimacy. These stories, filled with hope, heartbreak, joy, and discovery, have one thing in common: every individual yearns to be truly seen, heard, valued, and celebrated in their relationships, in and out of the bedroom!
Most practitioners out there are trying to convince you why you should work with them. I rather let my clients do the talking, as after working with me, they feel confident to show up on camera and share their journey publicly, hoping that their story might inspire others to take action and change their life too.
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I don’t just talk the talk. I embody what I teach. I cherish the most amazing relationship with my life partner, Chris. I firmly believe that such a profound connection isn’t just possible for me. It’s attainable for anyone who takes the time to learn about the transformative power of the body/mind/heart connection, regardless of past experiences, including you!
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FAQs
Q. What is holistic intimacy?
Holistic intimacy is a comprehensive approach to building closeness and connection in all aspects of a relationship with self and another. It goes beyond just physical or sexual intimacy to include emotional, mental, and sometimes spiritual connections. This approach emphasizes understanding and nurturing the whole person and the entire relationship, considering factors like communication, trust, mutual respect, and shared experiences. The goal is to create a deeply satisfying and balanced relationship that supports the well-being of all parties involved, in and out of the bedroom.
Q. How do sessions work?
Sessions conveniently take place online via Zoom, allowing for flexibility and the comfort of your own home, regardless of where you are located in the world.
Each session is tailored to your unique needs and challenges, ensuring a personalized experience.
- We will begin with a comprehensive assessment of your desires, and goals. From there, we will work together to create a customized plan that will support you to achieve the outcomes you want.
- We work together to identify which tools work best for you and develop a sustainable and integrated practice, so you can thrive.
- By actively engaging in your own pleasure and intimacy, you’ll experience increased connection, improved health and wellbeing, and a greater sense of joy and fulfilment in your life as you show up authentically and unapologetically, in and out of the bedroom!
Q. What happens in a session?
In a session, you’ll find a welcoming and judgment-free space. We start by discussing what you’d like to takeaway from out time together – from relationship challenges to personal intimacy goals. Then we’ll explore practical tools and exercises designed to help you achieve your goals.
Q. How many sessions do I need?
In New Zealand we say: “How long is a piece of string?”. The truth is, everyone’s journey varies, making the number of sessions needed unique to each person, as we all have different backgrounds and life experiences.
In my experience as a client and as a practitioner, to truly cultivate and sustain long-term results, a period of 3, 6 or 12 months is recommended. This allows for in-depth exploration, transformation, and the solidification of new practices and ways of being.
However, if you’re seeking guidance on a specific, pressing issue, a single session might offer the clarity and direction you need. Ultimately, the number of sessions depends on your individual goals, challenges, and desired outcomes and I’m here to support you in whichever capacity serves you best. For this reason, I invite you to schedule a clarity call, where we can have a chat and find out how my services can best support you.
Q. I’m not in a relationship. How can you help me?
Even if you’re not currently in a relationship, receiving sessions with me can empower you overcome personal barriers to sex, pleasure, intimacy and relationships. Many clients find that by cultivating a stronger bond with their inner self first, they build a foundation that attracts healthier and more fulfilling relationships in the future. Remember that the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life. You can read about my personal experience with this work here.
Q. What can I expect?
When embarking on a journey of holistic intimacy, you can expect an exploration of your emotional landscape, a process of self-discovery, and a deepening of relationships, in and out of the bedroom.
Expect to learn about your needs, boundaries and desires.
How to communicate your desires.
Overcome the barriers that have been preventing deeper connections and learn tools to overcome these obstacles.
You can anticipate growth, fulfilment, and a richer, more profound understanding of yourself and your relationships. The journey may challenge you, prompting you to confront fears or insecurities. However, you will be guided and supported every step of the way. I encourage you to review the case studies, as many people just like you and me have taken the leap and what is on the other side is nothing short of extraordinary!
Get in Touch
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If you are not sure on how my services can help you, please get in touch!