From Habitual Touch,
to Mindful Masturbation
- ? Does masturbation feel routine or mechanical?
- ? Are your orgasms less satisfying than they used to be?
- ? Do you want to feel more pleasure without relying on porn?
- ? Do you want guidance to explore new ways of experiencing your body?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are not alone.
Many men find that over time, self-pleasure becomes predictable, rushed or less fulfilling.
Mindful masturbation offers another way: reconnecting with sensation, expanding pleasure and rediscovering curiosity in your body.
Masturbation without porn or fantasy
It is possible to experience deeper pleasure without relying on porn or fantasy. Using awareness of breath, movement, and intentional touch, you can learn to activate your own arousal and experience more satisfying, full-body orgasms. Mindful masturbation helps shift self-pleasure from a routine task into a more connected and enjoyable experience, not just the finish, where the destination becomes the journey!
After just one session, many men report
“Wow, what an experience! That was literally like having an orgasm for the first time all over again. The focus on breathwork leads to building a mind-altering, sensation-enhancing total body experience with a FULL orgasm that radiates. I’ve never had an orgasm like that and I’m never going back to the old way.”
Benefits of Mindful Masturbation
- ✓ Create arousal without external stimulation
- ✓ Experience more pleasure and sensitivity
- ✓ Develop stronger, longer lasting orgasms
- ✓ Feel more connected to your body
- ✓ Explore new ways of touching yourself
- ✓ Move away from routine or mechanical habits
- ✓ Build confidence in your sexual expression
- ✓ Experience pleasure without relying on porn
“What a journey! It was very sensual. Every breath felt like waves of pleasure. I felt like I was in a trance state. Thank you Bia, what a gift you’ve given me!”
Your Coach
My name is Bia Bliss, and I am a and with experience supporting over 3,000 men to develop more confidence, sensitivity, and satisfaction in their sexuality since 2012.
Using breath, awareness, and guided touch, I help clients move beyond routine patterns and discover new ways of experiencing pleasure and deepen their connection with themselves.
Sessions are professional, confidential, and focused on helping you build your own capacity for arousal and fulfilment.
Some clients jokingly call me a “Dick Wizard” because of the changes they experience in pleasure and orgasm quality.
“I’m truly grateful for your guidance and coaching. I’ve definitely been practicing what you teach. I love the sensation of the slow build! Who else can say they have such a hot coach?! You’re truly a dick wizard!”
Mindful Masturbation may help you if:
- ✓ Feel stuck in the same masturbation routine
- ✓ Want to experience more pleasure
- ✓ Want stronger or more satisfying orgasms
- ✓ Want to reduce reliance on porn
- ✓ Want guidance from an experienced professional
- ✓ Want real-time feedback
- ✓ Feel curious about expanding your pleasure capacity
- ✓ Want to feel more connected with your body
- ✓ Want to enjoy self-pleasure rather than rush through it
“I am using what you have taught me when I masturbate and it is more fulfilling for sure. It was very exciting to be coached by you and do think about it often. Thank you.”
Mindful Masturbation Options
- ✓ Self-paced
- ✓ 12 Mindful Strokes
- ✓ Guided exercises
- ✓ Lifetime access
- ✓ Understand your patterns
- ✓ Personalised practices
- ✓ Guided 1:1 experience
- ✓ Integration support
- ✓ Real-time guidance and feedback
- ✓ Private and confidential
- ✓ Guided exercises
- ✓ Ejaculation welcome
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between the Masterclass, the 1:1 Experience and the Journey?
The Mindful Masturbation Masterclass is a 60-minute pre-recorded, self-paced session that teaches the core principles of mindful masturbation, including breath, pacing, awareness, and touch techniques. Many men find this provides enough structure to begin exploring new pleasure pathways on their own.
The 75-minute 1:1 Mindful Masturbation Experience is a live, fully guided session from beginning to end. After a brief check-in, you’ll be introduced to breathing exercises, body awareness and mindful touch before introducing mindful masturbation strokes that you can continue exploring in your own time. This is an experiential learning process and you’ll receive feedback in real time.
The Mindful Masturbation Journey is a three-session personalised experience.
Session 1: Discover
We explore your current relationship with masturbation, co-create practices for you to explore between sessions.
Session 2: Mindful Masturbation Experience
Fully guided from beginning to end. After a brief check-in, you’ll be introduced to breathing exercises, body awareness and mindful touch before introducing mindful masturbation strokes that you can continue exploring in your own time. This is an experiential learning process and you’ll receive feedback in real time.
Session 3: Integration
Reflect on your home practices, address questions or challenges, and identify next steps to integrate your learnings.
You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of your own body, a sustainable mindful masturbation practice, and the confidence to continue your exploration independently, in addition to techniques that will support your journey for years to come! The Masterclass is included as a bonus.
Which option is right for me?
Choose the Masterclass if you prefer to learn independently and explore the foundations at your own pace.
Choose the 1:1 Experience if you want a direct, fully guided experience without committing to an ongoing coaching process.
Choose the Mindful Masturbation Journey if you want personalised support to understand your habits and patterns, explore new practices, experience the guided 1:1 session, and integrate what you learn over time.
The best option depends on how much guidance, personalisation and ongoing support you would like. Some clients begin with the Masterclass and later choose 1:1 support if they want deeper guidance or faster progress.
What happens during the 1:1 Mindful Masturbation Experience?
Similar to working with a sports coach, you will receive guidance on breath, pacing, awareness, and touch. We begin with a short grounding or breathing exercise, followed by a guided exploration of sensations in your body. The focus is on helping you discover what creates more pleasure, without relying on external stimulation or porn.
Is this confidential?
Yes. Sessions are private and professional. Your information is treated with confidentiality and respect.
Are you nude during the session?
No. These sessions focus on helping you activate your own arousal and pleasure through awareness, breath, and touch. The emphasis is on developing your own capacity, rather than relying on external stimulation.
Can I ejaculate during the 1:1 Experience session?
Yes. Ejaculation is welcome if it happens naturally. The primary focus is on expanding pleasure and awareness, rather than chasing an orgasm.
Do I need to reach orgasm?
Not necessarily. Many clients experience meaningful shifts in pleasure, sensitivity, and confidence even without reaching orgasm during the session.
Do I need experience with mindfulness?
No prior experience is required. Guidance is provided throughout the session.
What do I need to do to prepare for a session?
Ensure you have a private space where you will not be interrupted.
You need to be hands-free for the duration of the session, so use your laptop.
Have lubricant (water or silicone-based), tissues or a towel, and a comfortable place where you can relax and move freely.
And most importantly, have an open and curious mindset.
How do I book a live session?
The 1:1 Mindful Masturbation Experience is booked directly through the online calendar here or the button above.
For the Mindful Masturbation Journey, you pay once and book your first session here or the button above, then receive access to book the remaining sessions and immediate Masterclass access.
How far apart should I schedule the Mindful Masturbation Journey sessions?
The sessions are ideally scheduled at least seven days apart. This gives you time to explore the practices and notice what changes between sessions.
The full Journey is intended to be completed within six weeks of your first session, unless we agree otherwise.
How do I pay?
Payment is made at the time of the booking using a debit or credit card. If you prefer to pay by Zelle or bank transfer, please contact me below to arrange this.
I’m not sure yet if this is for me. Where can I learn more?
You can read my articles on Mindful Masturbation below. If you have any questions, you are always welcome to contact me.
If your question hasn’t been answered, get in touch
Email me at [email protected] or message me on WhatsApp.
Learn more about Mindful Masturbation
New ways to experience pleasure CAN be learned
Life is too short for unsatisfying orgasms.
Mindful Masturbation Masterclass
A pre-recorded, self-paced introduction to mindful masturbation. Learn how breath, movement, awareness and intentional touch can help you slow down, increase sensitivity and explore pleasure differently, in just 60 minutes.
You’ll learn how bringing awareness to your body can create a more connected and fulfilling experience during masturbation.
By the end, you’ll have a simple, practical framework that you can return to whenever you choose, allowing your practice to evolve at your own pace.
Get the Masterclass75-Minute 1:1 Mindful Masturbation Experience
A 1:1 online Mindful Masturbation Experience coaching session, fully guided from beginning to end. After a brief check-in, you’ll be introduced to breathing exercises, body awareness and mindful touch before introducing mindful masturbation strokes that you can continue exploring in your own time. This is an experiential learning process and you’ll receive feedback in real time.
You’ll feel more connected to your body, and with a clear understanding of how to continue practising on your own.
Book a SessionMindful Masturbation Journey
A three-session personalised Mindful Masturbation coaching journey for developing a deeper and more sustainable relationship with masturbation and arousal.
Session 1: Discover (60 minutes)
Explore your current relationship with masturbation, habits, goals and possible improvements.
Session 2: Experience (60 minutes)
A 1:1 online Mindful Masturbation Experience coaching session, fully guided from beginning to end. After a brief check-in, you’ll be introduced to breathing exercises, body awareness and mindful touch before introducing mindful masturbation strokes that you can continue exploring in your own time. This is an experiential learning process and you’ll receive feedback in real time.
Session 3: Integrate (60 minutes)
Reflect on your home practices, address questions or challenges, and identify next steps to integrate your learnings.
You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of your own body, a sustainable mindful masturbation practice, and the confidence to continue your exploration independently, in addition to techniques that will support your journey for years to come!
✦ The Mindful Masturbation Masterclass is included as a bonus (valued at $97).
Begin the JourneySomatic Sexology
Somatic Sexology is an embodied approach to sexuality, pleasure and intimacy. It helps people learn through direct experience, using body awareness, breath, sensation, movement and mindful touch alongside conversation. This is not performance-based or prescriptive. The work is educational, consent-led and centred on helping you develop your own awareness, choices and capacity for pleasure.
Embodiment Counselling
Embodiment Counselling recognises that our experiences live not only in our thoughts, but also in the body. Alongside conversation, we may notice sensations, breath, movement, emotions and nervous-system responses. This can help the client understand patterns more deeply, reconnect with their own signals and develop new choices that feel grounded in lived experience.